Helen Jeffrey Cangialosi

February 16, 1935 ~ January 22, 2023 (age 87) 87 Years Old


Helen Jeffrey Cangialosi of Rumson, New Jersey, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family on Sunday, January 22, 2023. She was 87.
Helen was born February 16, 1935 in Red Bank, NJ. She was the daughter of Jacob and Kathryn Jeffrey and grew up in Shrewsbury, NJ. She attended St. James Elementary School and graduated from Red Bank Catholic High School in 1953. After high school she attended the Washington School for Secretaries and worked in New York City.
Helen met her husband Tom on a blind date and they married on January 29, 1955. Shortly after marriage, they moved to Washington D.C. where Tom was enrolled in Georgetown Dental School. There they began building a beautiful life that spanned 7 decades. In 1961, they headed back to New Jersey to be near a large extended family and friends.
Helen was known for her kindness, generosity, playful sense of humor, and genuine concern for others. People were the fuel that made her go and her family was the joy of her life. While raising four children she was a board member of Holy Cross Elementary School in Rumson, the Chairwoman of the annual Holy Cross Antique Show, an active member in the PTA, and the Alter Guild at Holy Cross Church. Additionally, she was the Office Manager for her husband’s Orthodontic practice in Shrewsbury from 1980 – 2016.

In her later years she became an avid runner and traveled extensively with her husband serving as the President of the Wives Club of the American Board of Orthodontics. Her enthusiasm and curiosity won her many friends world-wide.

  She was a devoted and loving mother and grandmother. Helen was immensely proud of her children and grandchildren each of whom she had a unique and special relationship with. This also includes all of her four-legged children and grandchildren.

Helen was pre-deceased by her parents Jacob and Kathryn, brother John and son Stephen, lost on 9/11. She is survived by her adoring husband of 68 years, Dr. Thomas J. Cangialosi, 3 children; Betsy and her husband Richard of Dorset, VT, Tom and his wife Kathleen of Middletown and Kathleen and her husband Brian of Tinton Falls. She had 12 grandchildren; Willy, Lizzy, Sam, Emily, Jeffrey, Peter, Tara, Julia, Katie, Thomas, Maggie, Michael and 2 great grandchildren Aelyn and Liam.
Though she will be missed immensely Helen’s family finds comfort in knowing that she has been reunited with all of her family members that have passed before her and is finally at home with our Lord Jesus.

Family and friends may visit from 3 to 7pm on Friday January 27th at John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Avenue, Red Bank. A funeral Mass will be held at Holy Cross Church in Rumson on Saturday, January 28 at 10 AM.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her name to Red Bank Catholic High School.

The family would like to send a special thanks to Helen’s caregivers Christine, Sheryl and Velma, all of whom cared for her with great kindness and compassion.

To send flowers to the family, please visit our floral store.


January 27, 2023

3:00 PM to 7:00 PM
John E. Day Funeral Home
85 Riverside Avenue
Red Bank, New Jersey 07701

January 28, 2023

10:00 AM
Holy Cross RC Church
30 Ward Avenue
Rumson, NJ 07760


Mt. Olivet Cemetery & Mausoleum, Middletown
100 Chapel Hill Road
Middletown, NJ 07701


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