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Thomas Michael McCarthy

August 12, 1943 ~ July 22, 2021 (age 77)




McCarthy, Thomas Michael, 77 of Middletown formerly of Rumson passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 22, 2021 with his family by his side.  Thomas was born in Brooklyn, N.Y. to the late Matthew and Doris (Murphy) McCarthy.

Thomas was a Captain in the U.S. Marine Corp, serving time in the Vietnam War as a helicopter pilot.    He went on to become a successful and respected attorney. He loved golf and was President of the “Lakers” Shadow Lake men’s golf league.  Thomas was an avid reader and most of all he enjoyed spending time with family and friends.

Thomas is predeceased by his brother Teddy and brother in law, Bill Yodice.  He is survived by his loving wife of 47 years, Nancy (nee Nichols); three children, Michael and his wife Juliana, David and Laura; his granddaughter, Lily Rose; three brothers, Greg and his wife Liz, David and his wife Jayne and Donald and his wife Suzie; five sisters, Peggy and her husband Steve Reilly, Lolly and her husband, John Ekdahl, Cathy Yodice, Carol and her husband Marty Howard and Jeannie McCarthy; and many loving nieces, nephews and cousins.

There will be a memorial gathering on Thursday, August 12, 2021 from 10 AM to 12:30 PM at the John E. Day Funeral Home 85 Riverside Ave. Red Bank, N.J.

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